The Rules to Break: A Personal Guide to Sifting the Gold Dust from the Sawdust

Author(s): Richard Templar

SELF HELP

From a very young age you've been inundated with other people's rules - parents, teachers, friends - helpful principles, friendly advice and little pointers to help you get on in life. So, how do you free yourself from these false or unhelpful beliefs that have somehow become ingrained in the deepest recesses of your mind? In this brand new book, international bestselling author Richard Templar exposes the most common imposter rules, and offers a refreshing perspective and a new way of thinking. Above all, Templar helps you master the ability to truly think for yourself, and follow a path that you've chosen, rather than blindly following someone else's.


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Richard Templar is the author of the international bestselling Rules books. Over 2 million people around the world have enjoyed and now play by Richard Templar's Rules. The complete list of titles is as follows: Rules of Life, Rules of Work, Rules of Management, Rules of Wealth, Rules of Parenting and Rules of Love.

Rules to Break - Contents 1. Success is a good job earning lots of money Rule 1: Success is what you say it is. 2. Some people are just born lucky Rule 2: Don't envy other people 3. You need the right qualifications Rule 3: Exams aren't the be all and end all 4. Your parents are always right Rule 4: Don't expect your parents to be perfect 5. Your parents are responsible for how you turn out Rule 5: Give your parents a break 6. The world is against you Rule 6: You're responsible for your own life 7. We all have an absolute right to be respected Rule 7: There's a balance between the right to respect, and tolerance 8. You can choose your friends but you can't choose your family Rule 8: Your siblings should be your best friends for life 9. Teacher knows best Rule 9: Getting on at school is not the same as getting on in life 10. Have something to say for yourself Rule 10: If you find it hard to talk, try listening 11. Some people are just difficult Rule 11: No one chooses to be difficult without a reason 12. You can't be cheerful if you're in pain Rule 12: Pain doesn't have to make you miserable 13. Good work speaks for itself Rule 13: No one at work will know how good you are unless you tell them 14. Do what it takes to get what you want Rule 14: Don't emotionally blackmail people 15. A place for everything, and everything in its place Rule 15: It's not morally superior to be tidy 16. It matters what other people think Rule 16: Don't live for other people's approval 17. Give as good as you get Rule 17: You get what you give 18. Stick with your own kind Rule 18: Your friends don't all need to be like you 19. The best things in life are free Rule 19: Everything worth having hurts 20. You can change people Rule 20: Don't try to change people 21. It's where you're going that matters, not where you came from Rule 21: Be proud of your roots 22. Friends are for life Rule 22: Friends come and go 23. Mistakes are a bad thing Rule 23: Mistakes can be good 24. Be a friend to everybody Rule 24: You don't have to like everyone 25. ...and everybody will be your friend Rule 25: ...and not everyone will like you 26. If you don't like it, tough Rule 26: Remember you have a choice 27. You need to get your chores over with Rule 27: Life's all about the little things 28. Stay true to your dreams Rule 28: Priorities change over the years 29. People have a right to know Rule 29: Know how to keep a secret 30. Face your fears Rule 30: Replace the bad thoughts 31. Respect the elderly Rule 31: Respect everyone 32. Look after number one Rule 32: Helping other people makes you feel good about yourself 33. If you're in the firing line, keep your head down Rule 33: They can't walk all over you unless you're lying down 34. Just ignore the bullies Rule 34: Don't let 'em bully you 35. Think on your feet Rule 35: Be in control 36. What you do is more important than why you do it Rule 36: Be honest with yourself 37. You can judge a book by its cover Rule 37: Everyone has a backstory 38. "What about me?" Rule 38: It's not all about you 39. Just once won't hurt Rule 39: Don't let bad habits get a foot in the door 40. Be spontaneous Rule 40: Listen to the voices in your head 41. Take one step at a time Rule 41: If you want big things to change, you have to make big changes 42. The best people will be there for you for life Rule 42: People come and go, and it's OK 43. Enjoy yourself while you're young Rule 43: Your body is for life 44. Borrowing is OK so long as you can pay it back Rule 44: Don't get into debt 45. Be generous Rule 45: Never lend money unless you're prepared to write it off 46. Believe you're the best Rule 46: Know your real worth 47. Don't allow people to make you feel bad Rule 47: The only thing you can control is you 48. Some people just get to you Rule 48: No one can make you feel anything 49. You can't help how you feel Rule 49: You feel what you think 50. You don't need words to show you appreciate someone Rule 50: Tell people how important they are 51. The Internet makes you anonymous Rule 51: The Rules don't stop online 52. Always seek to improve yourself Rule 52: Accept your shortcomings 53. Strive for perfection Rule 53: Perfection can be a handicap 54. You are the product of your genes Rule 54: You are the sum of your experiences (so make them good) 55. Tomorrow is another day Rule 55: How you spend your day is how you spend your life 56. Always get off on the right foot from the start Rule 56: Bide your time to make a good impression 57. Confident people know where they're going Rule 57: Everyone else is as lost as you 58. Stand out from the crowd Rule 58: There's a fine line between being ubercool and being a total prat 59. Appearances matter Rule 59: Be happy with the way you look 60. It's just a drop in the ocean Rule 60: The insignificant is important 61. The job comes first Rule 61: Don't mistake your career for your life 62. Get it all out in the open Rule 62: Avoid conflict 63. If you know you're in the right, don't back down Rule 63: Don't be afraid of compromise 64. Give as good as you get Rule 64: Keep the moral high ground 65. It's good to let your feelings out Rule 65: Don't trample on other people's emotions 66. No one is perfect Rule 66: Be on the side of the angels, not the beasts 67. Meet your deadlines Rule 67: Keep ahead of deadlines 68. Give good advice Rule 68: Don't give advice 69. Let people know when you're right Rule 69: Never say 'I told you so' 70. Stick to what you're good at Rule 70: Stretch yourself 71. You've a right to be treated fairly Rule 71: Stop expecting life to be fair 72. The more you learn about a subject, the more of an expert you become Rule 72: The more you know, the more you don't 73. If you're going to do something, do it properly Rule 73: You don't have to jump in the deep end 74. Stick with what you know Rule 74: Step out of your comfort zone 75. People will judge you by what you own Rule 75: Don't try to keep up with the Joneses 76. Hide your mistakes Rule 76: Remember you could be wrong - someone has to be 77. Live in the present Rule 77: Keep perspective 78. Know what you want Rule 78: You don't have to know what you want 79. Guilt tells you where you're going wrong Rule 79: Don't do guilt 80. Someone will make it better Rule 80: Pick yourself up (no one else will do it for you) 81. Think through your problems Rule 81: Thinking hard doesn't always help 82. Narrow down your options Rule 82: Look at all the options 83. Trust no one Rule 83: Trust everyone 84. Trust everyone Rule 84: Trust no one 85. Sometimes you need a good moan Rule 85: There are people who moan, and people who just get on with it 86. Don't sacrifice yourself for a relationship Rule 86: It's the compromises that make relationships worth having 87. Feelings should be rational Rule 87: Feelings aren't right or wrong. They just are. 88. Eat, drink and be merry... Rule 88: Stay alive 89. I want doesn't get Rule 89: Ask for what you want 90. If it ain't broke, don't fix it Rule 90: Look up 91. Find yourself a safe job Rule 91: Follow your passion 92. Protect your property Rule 92: People are more important than things 93. You can't change horses in midstream Rule 93: It's never too late to start following the real Rules

General Fields

  • : 9781447929482
  • : Pearson Education Limited
  • : Pearson Education Limited
  • : 0.146
  • : 30 June 2013
  • : 210mm X 149mm X 15mm
  • : United Kingdom
  • : 01 September 2013
  • : books

Special Fields

  • : Richard Templar
  • : Paperback
  • : 158.1
  • : 208